1985 buick skylark

i dont know what part is called that holds your frame to motor in the front its a bushing with bolt in middle

It’s called a motor mount.

anyone know where i can find a pictur of this

type motor mount, google images

Try this.
http://www.partsamerica.com/productdetail.aspx?MfrCode=ANH&MfrPartNumber=2382&PartType=27&PTSet=A