I don’t want anyone to read this like I’m advocating driving impaired, because I’m not.
But there are a few “grey area” things that should be considered IMHO:
-No one should drive when significantly impaired.
-A few drinks doesn’t have a “Jeckyl and Hyde” effect on everyone—not everyone turns into a menace to society or a raving a**hole after having a few beers. In fact, most people with some maturity enjoy alcohol responsibly.
-Alcohol only brings out what’s already lurking in a person’s personality.
-Not everyone that likes to have a couple of beers and take themselves home is a drunk driver or even breaking the law.
-Some people are very skilled at driving and some people handle alcohol a lot better than others, and some people can drive a bit impaired pretty darn well, actually better than a lot of people that never touch the stuff, which isn’t to say that they aren’t better drivers if they haven’t imbibed.
-Some people, especially inexperienced teen drivers, the elderly, and perhaps those that just don’t have the aptitude, will always be dangerous or inattentive drivers, even stone sober. If you add alcohol or drugs to the equation, things are going to get much worse.
-Just because a person has had a few drinks, even if they may be over the limit, and they get in some kind of accident, doesn’t necessarily mean it was because of the alcohol. As we all should have learned by now, s**t happens, and while alcohol is certainly a factor in a lot of crashes, a person shouldn’t be demonized because of bad luck and being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Even if an accident isn’t a person’s fault, if it’s found they had been drinking, it seems like the standard procedure is to throw the book at them.
-People are “human”, and make mistakes. Especially young people and people that life has dealt a bad hand. Incarcerating a person that has had their first DUI with no accident or harm for the “3-day vacation” is enough to make most people consider the consequences of their actions and behave better. This is already a life-changing event, and a lot of people will be lucky to keep their job and domestic life intact after such an occurrence. Making it worse than this for people that make mistakes to appease MADD or anyone else is idiocy and will not help save any lives, and can put a lot of people that can be reached and helped into a further downward spiral. Our current “system” of punishment and social work rarely helps anyone.
-It’s very easy for someone that has had a horribly negative experience with alcohol, has lost a loved one to a tragedy involving alcohol, or just doesn’t enjoy drinking at all to pass judgement on those that do, because they just can’t relate. I liken this to people that think sex is “dirty” or “shameful”, or should only be used for procreation. It’s all to easy to rationalize your version of morality on others when you don’t understand “where they’re coming from.”
-A little tolerance for our fellow humans, even if we can’t understand their motivations or point of view would make the world a little better place in which to dwell.
I am responsibly enjoying some alcohol at the moment myself. And for the record, I did not drive with even one drink in me this evening, as I rarely do.