No, they do not advertise that the fees are negotiable, why should they, they are in the business to make money and the more they make, the better they like it… If they advertise that, then everybody will want to negotiate the fees… By not advertising that, they only have to deal with buyers like me (and a few of you…) who will not deal with a money grubbing dealership that will probably try to shortchange you at every chance they get…
I am still amazed at the number of folk who are too “proud (not my first choice of words…)” to ask for a discount or offer less…
When I shop, I almost always ask if there is a discount, and if I am asked why, I respond with "I’m a veteran, or I pay cash, or it’s Friday, or I’m your first customer (and if I’m not, I say, I’m your “millionth customer…”
Lots of times everyone laughs and I get no discount, sometimes, “you’ve a Vet, huh…”, sometimes “you’ll pay cash?”
Also, when I garage/yard sale, I always ask what they are asking and that opens the door to negotiating… If they say, between $10 and $15, I never start the negotiating at $15, I already know they would easily take $10.
If you want to brag that you bought that “lemon Squeeze” for $10, good for you, I would rather say, “I’ll take it off your hands for $3…”
My grandmother would never ask for a discount, she thought that it would make the seller think you are cheap or too poor to afford the item. And I would say, if you overpay for an item, they will think you are a fish and you took it “hook, line, and sinker…”
Another issue that really bugs me are folks selling something and expect you to pay for their mistakes or they want you to pay the inflation based new price…
What are you asking for that 2010 Toyota Camay? Isn’t that like $1,000 over blue book? I am sorry that you still owe on the car and the loan is underwater, but I am not going to pay off your loan…
Or, I put new tires on the car a while back and I need to get something extra for them… But they are two-year old snow tires and they are pretty worn from you driving on them all year…
So readers, if you are still with me, remember, your own two legs are your greatest bargaining tool. If you do not like the deal, walk away… You would be surprised just how often the offer gets getter when they are looking at you walking away… Why, because they cannot sell you anything after you have left the building (just like Elvis…).