When I turned 16 my parents told me that I had to pay for gas and insurance for my own vehicle if I wanted to drive and that I could either have the family beater or buy my own car. I couldn’t afford any of that until after college a few years ago, so I took the bus until I could afford my own vehicle. I’m now 26 and have no tickets or points against my license. While this worked out great for me, this may not be for everyone. Still, I suggest the following:
You have stated public transportation isn’t really an option, so here is my suggestion. Buy the most clapped out, ugly, behemoth and sluggish POS of a car you can get for under $1,000.00. Get it also with a manual transmission (a must have). Some moderate rust is preferred. I think that driving a real POS for a number of years will really give her a sense of respect towards any future car she may own, and maybe some stories of her own that she can look fondly back on.
I currently own a 1990 Blazer full size. No A/C, the ABS quit, manual trans, and the paint is flaking off from the terrible, horrible rust. I learned to drive safely and put plenty of room in front of me as well as keep an eye on the other drivers because of one simple fact. This truck will kill me. Not may, WILL! It is very determined.
Bad tires and tread separation lead to bad road vibration (which I promptly replaced all four tires when I noticed that no, vibrations of earthquake proportions are not normal for a truck no matter how old), blinking Christmas-time dash light display (from the failing ABS) and the Mars dust left behind wherever I go from the self recycling frame and underbody indeed alludes to this fact. Sometimes when I kick it large red chunks fall off. Good times.
Why do I suggest something like this as a good starter vehicle? Well, when there is real terror experienced for every hard right turn you learn to take those turns easier. When the brakes decide if and when to engage you put plenty of room in front of you just in case they decide a mutiny is in order. When you have a manual transmission say goodbye to your cellphone (at least in city traffic) and any other hazardous distracting activities, and lastly, none of her friends will want to ride with her but in case they are that desperate, buy a car or truck with missing or destroyed weather-stripping, as this will make it hard for her to hear her friends or the radio over the whipping wind, even with the windows rolled all the way up.
Again, this may not work for everyone, but it’s worked out pretty well for me.
FINE, I will also admit, I don’t want any 18 year old driving a better car than me.
P.S.: I am (mostly) kidding, but a large car or truck with flaking paint, poor performance and manual transmission will do wonders for the automobile humility of our nation’s youth. Think of your own first cars and how they shaped your perception on the privilege of driving. I’ll be thinking of (and experiencing) mine on the drive home tonight.