A good shop will match and blend very well, but on a 20 year old car, it’ll really make the rest look shabby. I’d pay the extra to do the roof and hood or forget the whole deal. Now why give your daughter a 20 year old car? I keep my cars so understand, but no one want them after that.
Consider the person advising to get a lawyer is married to one. No think about increasing the claim enough so they just total the car. You are very borderline on a car that old. Add another $1000 to the cost and they might just total it.