I’m really surprised that nobody has already steered the OP to another current thread on the same topic:
Cindy–This topic has been discussed many times over the years, and as you will see from the thread whose link I posted above, your situation is not unique to Honda. The bottom line is that vehicle manufacturers specify tires that satisfy these needs for them:
Low cost
Good fuel economy
Low cost
Smooth ride
Low cost
The probability of getting OEM tires that are long-wearing is… remote… no matter what make or model of car you buy.