Random Deceleration between 0-40 Honda Accord 2002 V6

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Rather than a head gasket problem, this does sound like a valve cover gasket problem, and that is a much better scenario for the OP.

I doubt that coil gunk is the source of the problem, but good idea to take it to a specialist and get their opinon whatā€™s causing the symptom. I expect you already know that at 290K, thereā€™s many possibilities for malfunctions.