Problem replacing headlight on 2002 mitsu galant

mitsubishi
headlights
galant

#1

My driver’s side headlight went out and I have been trying to figure out how to get the old one out. Everywhere I look online it says that it’s easy, just pinch the tabs on the side of the power connector and pull out. But my connector doesn’t have any tabs to pinch and no matter how I twist, pull or grab, nothing budges. Any suggestions?