Well its not the starter. I ordered a remanufactured one, installed it and the same conditions persist. I took the original (with solenoid attached) down to the parts store had it tested, and it works.
Im not hearing any click at the starter when I turn to crank. Im wondering if Ive simply blown a fuse somewhere, while using the jumper incorrectly in the relay cavities causing a spark. I included the diagram of the starting and charging system and was wondering if anyone had suggestions as to what might be keeping this car from starting. The other thread relating to this diagnosis: HELP- Fried PCM?