Well, if anybody is still following this, here is how I think it works. The pressurized air inside the tire applies perpendicular to the walls of the inside of the tire and the inside surface of the wheel. The compressed air pressure holds the inside surface of the tire away from the inside surface of the opposite side of the tire. The tread on one side of the tire is pushed away from the tread on the opposite side of the tire. The sidewalls are also pushed away from each other by the compressed air. There are tens of thousands of pounds of force making the tire hold its shape, 32 pounds per square inch for a typical car. That air pressure resists the force of the ground imposed upon the outside of the tire when the car is lowered off the lift and placed on the ground.
Even without air in the tire, the sidewall of the tire has some resistance to being bent under a load. An unmounted tire will support its own weight, and a mounted tire with only atmospheric pressure will support the weight of itself and the wheel. But if you balance your weight on the bead of an unmounted tire, you will flex it beyond the amount of flex generated by lowering the car onto an inflated tire. Therefore the sidewall of the tire does not have sufficient strength to hold up the car when the car is lowered off the lift.
For a two ton SUV, there is a load of approximately 1,000 pounds imposed upon the ground under each tire (recognizing the load is not even between the front and back of the car). That means there is one thousand pounds of directed force available to deform the tire. Some of the 1,000 pounds of force imposed will be taken up by flexing the sidewall of the tire, but not much.
The remainder of the 1,000 pounds of force flattens the tire against the pavement until the surface area of the flattened part of the inside of the tire times the inflation air pressure inside of the tire equals the remainder of the 1,000 pounds of force to be opposed. That force is translated to the pavement by the tread of the tire. The local pressure exerted by the outside of the tire against the ground can and does vary from place to place because the inside of the tire is smooth and has a smaller diameter, and the outside of the tire is treaded and has a larger diameter. The tire must therefore deform to change shape from circular to flat on the part that contacts the pavement. (There would also be some resistance to bending the tread, which wound take up some of the 1,000 pounds of force, and local effects all around the edge of the tire where the force imposed on the outside of the tire changes from about 32 psi to atmospheric pressure. These effects oppose some part of the 1,000 pounds of force.)
How does the weight of the car get translated to the pavement? I think it works like this. A tire has a high sheer resistance and a high tensile strength, but little resistance to bending. The sidewall of the tire resists deformation parallel to the surface of the tire very strongly, but has only weak resistance to being bent or straightened. The weight of the car is translated to the wheel by the axle pressing against the wheel through the lugs and contact surface between the axle and the wheel. The weight is translated from the wheel to the tire by the wheel pressing on the bead of the tire. The bead of the tire is held to the wheel by the air pressure directed perpendicular to the overlap between the tire and the rim times the surface area of the overlap times the friction between the tire and the rim. As the bottom of the tire bead (the part of the bead closest to the ground) is pressed down, the side of the bead (the part at 9:00 and 3:00 from the axle) follows because the wheel holds the bead stiff. As the side of the bead presses down, the part of the sidewall horizontal from the side of the bead is pulled along with it because the shear strength of the sidewall is greater than the shear stress created by the load imposed on it by the bead pulling down. The sidewall is pulled down with 1,000 pounds of force by the bead. The sidewall pulls the rest of the top half of the tire down because of the high tensile strength and shear strength of the tire. The actual distribution of stress and strain is likely very complicated. The top of the tire is pulled down with a total of 1,000 pounds of force. The inside surface of the tread on the top half of the tire likewise carries the air contained within the tire down. The opposite side of the tire is repelled by the contained air and presses against the ground. There is more than enough upward directed air pressure contained in the tire to suspend the tire. There is almost no deformation (strain) in the top of the tire because the shear and tensile strengths of the tire are high and the 1,000 pound load is distributed over the entire downward facing surface of the inside of the tire.
When the car is lowered from the lift, the ground imposes a point load on the surface of the tire (actually a line load considering the width of the tread). The air inside the tire does not push out strongly enough at that point (on that line) to resist a 1,000 pound load. Instead, the surface area must increase until the surface area equals the load divided by the inflation pressure (ignoring the strength of the sidewall). I don?t know whether the sidewall is stiffened by the air pressure, but the strength of the sidewall and other effects can be determined by subtracting from 1,000 pounds the surface area times the inflation pressure.
In a prior post I wrote something about Buoyancy. I agree I was all wet. The point I was trying to make, badly, is that the weight of the car can be mechanically uncoupled from the bottom of the tire, but that does not mean the bottom of the tire will not feel the weight of the car. In this case, the weight of the car is uncoupled from the bottom of the tire because the sidewall below the rim is weak and cannot bear the weight of the car. The sidewall retains its tensile and shear strength, though. Otherwise the car would not move forward when the transmission turns the axle.
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