I want to eat in a restaurant owned by you, but I’m going to provide my own food for you to fix for me. I get sick because the beef was from a steer with mad cow disease…
Just as retailers make money both on the products and the services, so do the automotive shops. The only difference is that in the retail trade, the services are built into the cost of the goods, and in “service industries” (like automotive shops) the services are specifically costed seperately.
If a shop does an honest and competant job fixing my vehicle I’m more than happy to pay him his due, which includes the shop time AND the parts markups. And in addition to my check, he’ll also have my thanks and my good references.