Yeah, I don’t rev match with either my car or my motorcycle, and my car’s clutch has lasted 224,000 miles so far (the bike only has 48,000 miles). The only vehicle I’ve ever done rev matching on was on a Volvo tractor with a Cummins diesel, and that was because the transmission didn’t have synchronizers.
Something to consider is that if rev matching was so important, your automatic transmission would do it for you (automatically). It doesn’t, because it isn’t.