I Have Never Watched ER. I Don’t Watch Any Of The CSI Type Shows, Either.
However, this whole question is about auto “mechanics” and your lack of trust in them and your lack of knowledge. You want somebody to tell you how to have more of it.
I’m starting to think you posted any old question to get on a “I’m a nurse” soap box.
I have probably spent more time in hospitals than you. Here’s a little nurse stuff:
“Yet hospitals are WAY less staffed than 4:1 ratios, and a nurse is lucky to see a patient twice a shift…let alone deal with the family members like you, who want to be the squeaky wheel or "I just got my medical degree this month watching over Dad, so listen up, nurse, before I have’em fire your @$$!”
Here’s one experience. I watched as the nurse caring for my father turned on a television in a vacant patient room in ICU and adjusted it so she could watch a daytime soap opera from a comfortable spot behind a counter. She was so absorbed in it and kept putting off my elderly dad’s requests for assistance that I had to finally go in search of ice chips and a blanket, down the hall, outside of ICU. That’s when I was questioned. The boss came in to see and the nurse was immediately taken out of ICU.
“Nurses are unusual in that even a doctoral-degree nurse in a business suit who has just taught a class with MDs among her attendees will more often than not be willing to drop her briefcase and help a hospital patient get to the bathroom or just get a drink when they have suffered too long due to drastic understaffing.” Nobody was dropping anything and they weren’t understaffed.
Also, I had to do some medical research in order to get special care that my father needed when he was in the hospital. The hospital was incapable of securing the specialist that was required. I had to get the ball rolling, in other words. After having a foreign doctor tell me that everything was being done, I got him the care that was needed.
I’m not complaining that it’s just nurses who have weak or incompetent employees among them, but what I’m saying is that when you are paying for services, it’s up to you to expect them and receive them and make sure that you do. Sometimes you need to educate yourself to make it happen.
You need to look after yourself and if you are ever hospitalized be sure to have someone watching out for you. I have seen a “comedy of errors” several times in hospitals and it’s not funny. Don’t get me started.
Thanks for being a nurse. It’s not for everyone, as you say. I’m sure you are good at it because you sound like you are “into it”.
CSA