High miles volvo station wagon or VW Jetta?

I suggest that you look for a 2002/2003 Ford Crown Victoria, 2002/2003 Pontiac Bonneville, and 2002/2003 Buick Regal or Century. You should be able to get a decent one in a private sale for less than $5000. They have the best injury scores in the IIHS insurance payout database. That means they are the safest for the passengers. Being large cars also means that they are unpopular, and are priced lower because of it. Another bonus is that these cars are likely to belong to a senior citizen. Seniors are more likely to take care of their cars, since they have learned that good maintenance leads to fewer repairs. Find one you think is in great shape and have a mechanic you trust check it over before you buy it.