HORRIBLE UPDATE:
So the car was working fine, so I went ahead and took it on the 6-hour (one way) trip I was planning with my family. It worked great all the way down. The next day, I left a restaurant and the fuse blew again. I went to the back, wiggled a few wires around, put a new fuse in, and it worked!
Got back to the hotel and it happened again. Wiggled, changed fuse, and ta-da! It sat overnight and was not working again, and I had some daylight, so I hunkered down to try to fix it. And that was the start of all Hell breaking loose.
I undid some electrical tape that I hadnāt undone before to look inside, and it all looked fine. I left the tape off because I figured it might have to come off again at some point when I got it fixed. My husband removed that electrical circuit-looking thing (photo a few posts back) because the third light worked without it plugged in (could have been a complete coincidence), and it didnāt āseemā to serve a purpose. I thought my husband plugged it back in, but he didnāt. We were out of fuses so he āborrowedā one from another spot, which was the accessories fuse. That one blew, too.
We drove to the gas station and I scolded him for blowing a fuse that operated other things, so he bought some fuses at the gas station. They were unmarked, so the gas station attendant said āname a price.ā They were in plastic baggies, stapled shut, 2 in a pack, and said āQUALITY AUTOMOTIVE PRODUCTSā SFE-20 amp. Made in china on the back. The logo was a piece of paper stapled on. We put them in the accessories slot and the āSTOPā slot, which was the slot that kept blowing our fuses and controlled our brake lights.
While we driving away, maybe 50 feet, I started to smell smoke! The wires back there were ALL smoking. It was awful. We pulled over and everything was melted and smoking (no fire, canāt believe it.) It looks awful. We popped the hood and saw that the STOP fuse that we had been regularly replacing had MELTED. We were able to pull out some of it, but not all. Itās totally ruined.
We drove it back to the hotel and the car was going HAYWIRE. Every light flashed on and off, every gauge flicked and jumped. The lights were all on and were dim. Every engine light came on. The vehicle thought that every door was open. Our sliding doors didnāt work. The battery seemed like it was dying and the car was just chugging along. Iām surprised we made it to the hotel.
WHAT HAPPENED?! Was it a bad, cheap fuse? Was this just what was going to happen to the car eventually with that short? Was it unplugging that circuity thing? Was it removing any electrical tape? (The wires seemed totally in tact, no punctures or anything.)
Thanks, guys. It looks like my car repair just got 10,000X more expensive. And Iām stranded with two preschoolers 6 hours away in another state.
What do I even begin to tell a mechanic what is wrong with my car? Is it something a non-Honda dealer can do?
(P.S.: If any of you win the lottery and feel like being philanthropicā¦ )