Being a good parent means being concerned about one’s children, certainly. I understand that. I lived that. But one must be careful not to make life unrealistically easy for the offspring. There is a fine line between being concerned and becoming a “snowplow” parent.
I was worried the whole five years my son went off to undergrad and grad school and my daughter went off to an entire 4 year undergrad program (married and finishing grad school now). They both went to schools 4 hours distant.
I supplied them (son paid half) with older (but relatively safe) vehicles. My wife and I both worked and could afford to buy newer vehicles, but that is not what learning about life is about and as a parent, not running for a “most popular” award, but rather teaching the realities of life and the hardships and expenses was important and justified. Keeping older cars alive and somewhat reliable teaches important life skills and financial skills. My kids still respect me now.
You mentioned “single mom” and needing to “keep the price down,” so I believe buying a $10,000 car might not be the best choice. It might be better to accept that you will worry all the way until the daughter flies the nest. (With or without the car, you’ll worry, anyhow, probably).
We did not sacrifice our retirement for our kids, but we did support and encourage them and they turned out pretty well.
I have never broken down on the road (and I drive older cars) and my kids never broke down on the road (although I worried about it). I taught them both how to take care of a vehicle, prepare the car for a trip, and what to check and what precautions to take.
They appreciate what they have now much more because they earned it, not because things were given to them or obstacles were plowed out of the way on the road to becoming responsible adults. Just saying…
You never did say if the entire 06 Escape was evaluated by your mechanic, only that the wheel speed sensors were. Be sure to assess the whole vehicle. The money already spent on the front-end should have made it quite safe.
I’d still consider that vehicle. I’d at least start out there and see how that goes.
CSA