The picture is scary. So, this is from going through an automatic brush car wash, correct? I have delved into all the washing methods used on cars, and was shocked to find out how much they can put scratches into the clear coat / paint.
I asked my local high-end body shop owner, whose work and advice I have always found excellent - he’s a straight shooter and been around the block for a long time. His view is that ALL automated car washes, even the touchless ones, scratch the car. He was the most negative on ones with brushes of any type.
He, like others, believe it is better to leave the car dirty longer, as long as it is not grit or residue from driving down a dirt road (I would never drive down one!).
This is what I have found to make the most sense, and probably cause the least amount of any scratching.
Hand-Wash the car. But not at your house, but rather at a self wash high pressure wand at a car wash. The problem at your house is that the water pressure is not high enough, which drags the dirt across the paint to scratch it. The high pressure from a hand-held car wash wand hits the particles fast and strong enough that the dirt particles are bounced off so quickly, they don’t get dragged across the paint enough to scratch it.
Some may take issue with this, but that’s what my best research tells me, and I did a lot.
However, the recycled water most car washes use may have some residue in it, though if the filtration system the car wash uses is up to date, and properly maintained, this shouldn’t be an issue. Unfortunately, the only car wash near me is a scum outfit that has their water-temperature turned way down low, and you barely get lukewarm water, and that’s only if you run $2.00 worth of wash cycle to even get that. Then they overload it with soap so you have to rinse and rinse, and still end up with white spots. And, this cheapskate outfit has the lukewarm water on only the wash cycle, with all other cycles providing cold water.
It would be ideal if the self-wash bays had real strong, hot air blowers you could use, as even microfiber towels used as they should be used, per my body shop owner and a nearby detail shop say you risk putting some scratches in the paint simply by pulling that clean microfiber cloth across your car’s panels… Also be aware that many micro-fiber clothes have tags on them that you need to cut off, as they can scratch the paint as well.
I know there are some posts here extolling the virtues of touchless car washes. They theoretically should be the least damaging, but that depends on the quality and engineering of the particular touchless unit.
Hope to read more replies, as this is a subject on cars that needs to be given more attention.