02 civic timing belt

I bought my 2004 Honda Civic new with 5 miles only when i got it. I have over 200k miles now and i have
driven my car eveywhere. I haven’t changed the timing belt yet and i know my best friend drove her Honda element for 9 years and it has 230k miles and she hasn’t changed her timing belt. I’m getting paranoid and will be changing it soon. I don’t know if it’s luck or not but they recommend you change your timing belt at 60k miles.