Can I disable the catalytic converter sensor on my wife's car?

If the system at work doesn’t work out for you, call any chain auto parts store near you to see if they have an OBD-II scan tool they can loan you. Many places do. You just trade your credit card for the scan tool, run your scan, and they will print the codes found. Since there’s no cost, they won’t scan your credit card (it’s just security).