Well listen to Dad. House values do not always go up as we saw in the 2008 crash or whenever it was. If you have equity, you can usually weather the storm. I’ve never bought a house but have built several. Sweat equity and a 25% down requirement insures equity. We’ve been lucky with decent timing.
I read last night that there is a 17% national default rate on homes. If you are under water you are in trouble if you have an income adjustment. If you have equity you can always sell at a profit. The next article after that was the shortage of school bus drivers paying from $24 to $29 an hour. Sure not full time and have to have your bus endorsement but an extra hundred a day can mean a lot. As a kid, one of the drivers worked at theb Pure gas station but drove morning and night. Just sayin.
My dad always had a second job. We advised each other and tried to advise the kids. When dad built in 1965, it took several years to get rid of the old house. Finally did it on a contract to a couple that couldn’t qualify for a mortgage. If you have equity you always have options.
My second job was army reserves. Everyone finished training as an E4. After a few years you could be an E5. At that level camp and weekend pay provided a little buffer. Only the leadership got E7 which was a reasonable pay level. At the tim3 I wasn’t happy but it bought new clothes for the wife. Don’t tell m3 how hard things are for the kids although I have sympathy.