@sgtrock21
We definitely share some of the same values
I remember several years ago, many of my coworkers were making fun of me, because I was driving an old Corolla at the time. Plain jane, but pretty reliable, paid for, and very economical. I was getting 37mpg at the time. And I was using the ac all the time, and I wasn’t driving like an old granny, either.
They asked me why I didn’t buy a nicer car. I said not only can’t I afford to buy such a car, but I also couldn’t pay the higher registration fees, much higher insurance rates, much higher fuel costs, etc. In fact, if somebody had GIVEN me such a car, I still couldn’t have paid for the fuel and insurance. I was financially in limbo, just able to maintain, but I knew exactly what I could afford and what I couldn’t
They also said I should have bought a much bigger house and sold my soul to the devil to do it . . . in other words, really stretch myself out. I told them I wasn’t comfortable doing that, and rather would have a house with an affordable mortgage payment, versus a much higher payment, and I would be sweating blood every day, worrying if I would be able to make the next payment or not
Anyways, a few years later, when the gas prices really went up, they were all complaining about what it costs to refill their thirsty suburbans and F350 duallies. I actually didn’t gloat or say a word. A few of them asked if I’d sell them my Corolla. I asked them if they thought I was a fool, or what, and I told them I remembered how they were ridiculing me a few years earlier.
Then when the economy really went down, many of them were earning much less money and were no longer able to afford their mortgage, or all the payments for their suburbans, F350 duallies, and their otherwise extravagant lifestyles. I was still able to hang onto my possessions and my modest house. I had no problem making my mortgage payments. They could not say the same.
Some of them declared bankruptcy, and felt they had absolutely nothing to do with it. They felt denying any responsibility was just fine. Childish, if you ask me