You guys are not directly answering the OP’s question,willey may take offense. You are not being asked to offer relationship advice.
You want us to advise a “co-dependent” on how to maintain their perceived problem ?
I pass then ! 
You guys are not directly answering the OP’s question,willey may take offense. You are not being asked to offer relationship advice.
You want us to advise a “co-dependent” on how to maintain their perceived problem ?
I pass then !